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Okay, let’s struuuuuuggle… Says Andrew… Q5: The fear of sextortion always seems a little overblown to me. Like yes, of course, it would be super embarrassing if someone saw your videos. But the majority of people in the world do not receive or forward random videos of masturbating teenagers. Like, if someone forwarded me a … Read More »

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Quickies

Aug. 5th, 2025 11:00 am
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Posted by Patrick Kearney

1. Advice for a gay 28-year-old university professor who wants to cruise the apps in New York City while somehow avoiding his students? “There’s no easy solution to online dating in places where you might encounter students,” said a sexually active gay university prof who lives and fucks (and wishes to remain anonymous) in a … Read More »

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The Dog Ate My Vibrator

Aug. 5th, 2025 11:00 am
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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

A woman is grappling with the dubious ethics of financial domination. Her friend asked her to do it, and she made a quick, easy $1k. But she knows that it is addictive and can ruin men’s lives. Should she continue? A gay man is being bothered to distraction by his straight pal who teases and … Read More »

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Blood Sport

Jul. 29th, 2025 11:00 am
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Posted by Patrick Kearney

Dear Readers: I’m away on my last reconnecting-with-family trip of the summer. This column originally appeared in 2018. Back with an all-new, action-packed Savage Love Quickies column next week. — Dan I’m a professional dominatrix, and I thought I’d seen everything in the last five years. But this situation completely baffled the entire dungeon. This middle-aged … Read More »

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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

While tidying up after some Airbnb guests, a gay man discovered a vibrator left under the pillow. Should he message the couple and offer to send it back, or would that be too embarrassing? One year ago, a woman called the show about her boyfriend, and Dan advised her to break up with him. But … Read More »

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